I make no such insistence nor claim that this is the One True Way. I think your proposals are also perfectly suitable. I agreed with you that it's kind of knee-jerk and that there may be better ways.
You are trying to trick them into a sexually uncomfortable or humiliating situation which they would not otherwise consent to.
I disagree with everything you say here. *They* are *forcing me* into a sexually uncomfortable and humiliating situation, explicitly *against* my consent. I'm not tricking them at all, I'm just refusing to make it any easier for them.
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I disagree with everything you say here. *They* are *forcing me* into a sexually uncomfortable and humiliating situation, explicitly *against* my consent. I'm not tricking them at all, I'm just refusing to make it any easier for them.