You are trying to trick them into a sexually uncomfortable or humiliating situation which they would not otherwise consent to. It's sexual harassment at the very least. And your metaphor, while nicely emotionally charged, is completely backwards.
I can think of half a dozen other ways off the top of my head to make the situation uncomfortable, awkward or embarrassing for them. Bursting out crying at their first touch, for instance. Emotionally powerful, highly visible to the other people around you, and far more photogenic. I find the insistence that we *must* use this one tactic to be creepy, short-sighted, and a very knee-jerk form of revenge thinking. We're more creative than that.
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I can think of half a dozen other ways off the top of my head to make the situation uncomfortable, awkward or embarrassing for them. Bursting out crying at their first touch, for instance. Emotionally powerful, highly visible to the other people around you, and far more photogenic. I find the insistence that we *must* use this one tactic to be creepy, short-sighted, and a very knee-jerk form of revenge thinking. We're more creative than that.